WTFDYW Sexuality Forum

A brotherhood of men committed to evolving their sexual expression.


Some conversations can change your life. In this group, we have those conversations every week.

Bring those topics you can't talk about with anyone else. This group is confidential, curated, and high level.

It's not exactly coaching, and it's not exactly a support group. Come see what we're all about.  Limited to 15 men.

Wednesdays @ 5:30 PM Pacific, 8:30 PM Eastern.

First meeting 7/10/24. 

Join now for $1

When men talk about sex...

 It's often to joke about it or to brag. That is not what we're about.

Most men find, that when they're given a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their *actual* feelings about sexuality, a new kind of conversation emerges.

And that's the conversation you'll be joining.

This group is part coaching container, part support group. We have a set of guidelines for engagement that keep *you* on track in the direction of your growth, and keep the group a confidential space for you to build authentic connections.

This group is for you if...



  • You come with a sense of humility, and truly desire to grow.
  • You are capable of receiving well-intended feedback without becoming defensive.
  • You understand the value of commitment, and have a growth mindset. If you're just wanting to do things the way you've always done them, or you want to complain without evolving your approach to life, this is not your space.
  • You are accepting of people of all faiths, ethnicities, and sexual orientations. You have cultivated curiosity towards life and your fellow man.
  • You have integrity, and can be relied upon to honor your word. You value repair if and when that proves impossible.


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"I feel like I told myself for a long time that I, as resourceful as I am, and as much as I had explored, had access to all sorts of tools and strategies. It was just a matter of needing to kick myself in the pants and have the motivation to use them. After going through Depth Sexuality, I realize I *didn't* have all the tools. I'm more aware of the uncertainties and insecurities I had before, and the tools that I need to move forward are now clear to me. As an entourage. They complement one another."


"My partner is *very* happy I found Michael. I used to approach sexuality as a primarily physical activity, and now I am sensitive to the more subtle energies involved."

Jack S

"I have worked with Michael Author for about 10 months now and I highly recommend him. What really set him apart was his ability to see me where I was. I am now a more confident person and I have a few women orbiting around me whereas I was previously limited to birds with broken wings."

Olivier W.
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Michael Author

Michael Author has spent over a decade in the trenches after leaving his career as an English professor, first developing his own sexuality consciously, and then 7 years supporting hundreds of men to connect to their healthy masculinity, address sexual insecurities or performance concerns, and create powerful relationships. His background is in western esoteric magick and neo-tantra, and he specializes in helping men who are in times of transition to recreate their lives and their sexuality to fit more completely with their deepest soul-led desires.

Please note that, although the language I use on this page speaks primarily to heterosexual, cisgender, men (who are the bulk of my clientele), Depth Sexuality can be of equal value to queer, gay, and trans-men who are tops, sides, or are versatile as well as to gender nonbinary individuals who were assigned male at birth. Any man or male-bodied individual is welcome here.