Depth Sexuality for Men

I work with men who want depth.

Depth Sexuality is designed to help you address long-standing patterns and habits, and craft a unique style of sexual engagement that creates new layers of connection with your own body and your partner(s).

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"Men don't talk about sex."

 --Hopefully Someone Who's Not You

At least not most men, not regularly, and definitely not with other men in any capacity other than bragging or joking.

As a result, many men end up feeling they don't have anyone to speak with about it, and a myriad of undesirable patterns can linger for years if not decades.

  • Rapid Ejaculation
  • Porn Addiction
  • Disparity of desire with their partner(s)
  • Neediness or dissatisfaction with sexual engagement
  • Feelings of shame or inadequacy
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Lack of desire
  • Fear of crossing boundaries
  • ...and many others


So, what's the solution?


The first and most difficult part of the journey to fully inhabiting your sexuality is to admit that you have more to learn, and to COMMIT to the journey.

Essentially, humility coupled with a hunger to grow.

Sexuality is so tied to our own sense of self-worth that by the time many men come to me they've basically given up or accepted "This is just how it is."

Only, it isn't. No matter what your habits and patterns or experience with s*xuality is, more is always available for the intrepid explorer who can set their ego aside long enough to ask "What more is possible for me?"

Over the course of 90 days, I take men through a process founded in western neotantric practice that completely revolutionizes the way they engage with their own sexuality and opens the door to ejaculatory choice, male multiple orgasm, and a depth of connection with their partner(s) that most can only dream of.

I host this work on a 1:1 basis, and as a group program once per year. A self-paced online program will be available soon.


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Depth Sexuality is a Modality.

One thing I've learned about myself as a man is that I do better when I work with systems. Most other men do, too.

The problem with sexuality is that it tends to defy systems-thinking

Sexuality is visceral and deeply emotional. If you attempt to figure it out using only your mind you're gonna have a bad time. Most people will not respond well to bringing systems to them in the bedroom.

Luckily, your partner(s) will never have to understand it. To them, it will simply be an experience. The tools we practice in Depth Sexuality can be your well-kept secret. I've created this system based on 13 years of conscious engagement with my sexuality. I've witnessed and embodied the good, the bad, and the downright ugly. 

What I've found is that every sexual experience falls into one of four modes of sexual engagement (though multiple modes may be exhibited in a single encounter). In Depth Sexuality we look at the flow of energy within each of these four modes, and reverse-engineer the components so that you can choose to enter any of the four modes at will.

Ultimately, this is a skills-based course. Rather than focusing on performance, however, we focus on Depth. The deeper you can drop in to each mode by practicing their constituent parts, the greater your capacity becomes to:

  • Feel your partner.
  • Feel yourself.
  • Express your naturally dominant energy without fear or second-guessing yourself.
  • Cultivate your receptivity.
  • Maintain awareness and influence the functions of your autonomic, sympathetic, and parasympathetic nervous systems during sexual encounters.

"I have worked with Michael Author for about 10 months now and I highly recommend him. What really set him apart was his ability to see me where I was. I am now a more confident person and I have a few women orbiting around me whereas I was previously limited to birds with broken wings."

Olivier W.

"My partner is *very* happy I found Michael. I used to approach sexuality as a physical activity, and now I am sensitive to the more subtle energies involved."

Jack S.
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